Most of the time, when we start a scene or are involved in a scene with you, AST Janet and myself will get an email notification.
If we have not responded to your thread and need to, please let us know (via PM, email, etc) as we will not necessarily see it immediately. I dunno about AST Janet, but my account will mark threads as read even if we have not actually read the scene / posts.
In other words, this is a pain, we know, but we're honestly not ignoring you: we just haven't had it brought to our attention for some reason.
So just shoot us a word, and we'll get to it. I promise.